Stella Damascus Reveals Ways To Keep Your Man

Popular Nollywood actress, Stella Damascus has come up with with a list of things that men really want and how women can keep their men. Here is what she has to say:
Now we know that the one thing men cannot live without apart from money is sex. Wives don't deprive your husbands or they will get it elsewhere.
What men want:
-They want to feel like they are in control of things which is not bad because they are the head.
-They want to feel loved and like it or not they are our first babies who desire words of affirmation no matter how macho they seem.
They want to feel WANTED all the time, it gives them the confidence that all men crave for.
- They want to know you are still sexually attracted to them.
- They don't want you to make it obvious that you are smarter even if you are.
- They like their space and alone time.
- They don't want to come home to a fat mama who is the opposite of the sexy curvy woman he fell in love with.
- They don't want to come and hug you after work with you smelling of onions and oil. At least take a shower before he gets there or if there is no time spray perfume.
- They want to come home to a nice smelling neat and tidy home.
- They want you to be a good listener not just a talker.
- They want to know that you believe in them and you are proud of them.
- They want to know that no matter what you will have their back and support them, then ask questions later.
- They just want to see that you are making an effort because no human should expect you to be perfect.
- They don't want another mother but they want you to take care of them the way you would your kids.
- They want a wife, girlfriend, sorry to say (personal call girl) which is not a bad thing because he is your husband who is free to express his sexual desires as long as they are not life threatening or demeaning.
Think about this objectively, try out what you agree with and discard what you don't. Leave the messenger out of it for a change and see the bigger picture ahead.
READ MORE:  http://news.naij.com/44783.html?utm_source=facebook&utm_medium=share-button&utm_campaign=facebook

source: naij.com

Frank Edoho's New Marriage Having Problems

Popular television presenter and the host 'Who Wants To Be A Millionaire', Frank Edoho is having increasing spat with his new wife, Sandra and it's all due to the very flamboyant lifestyle Sandra lives.
Frank is said to be uncomfortable with ballooning expenses of flamboyant lifestyle Sandra initiates.
Insiders revealed Sandra relishes in unique leisure experiences that comes at high cost. She is said to prefer constant vacations abroad, peculiar jewelleries, attires and related lifestyle materials. And the urge to constantly fix and refix their Victoria Garden City home.
According to an insider 'at first Frank enjoyed the new approach to life, but with depleting riches, he has had a rethink and attempting to resist them'

Sources confirmed the moves to curtail his wife's excesses and the new family's expenditures is the cause of growing disaffection between husband and wife.

Though informants claimed they are trying to keep the spats as quiet as possible- the effect is becoming apparrent to close friends.
'The smitten looks and public caress are becoming far and in between' a source divulged. 'The prayer is that the situation is arrested and things do not get out of control,' another disclosed

Source: naij.com

READ MORE:  http://news.naij.com/44784.html?utm_source=facebook&utm_medium=share-button&utm_campaign=facebook

PASTOR AJANAKU’S DEATH: 27 Ogboni Fraternity Members Storm Home; Perform Occultic Rites

It has been announced that Tope Alabi erstwhile spiritual father, Prophet Elijah Iretiola Ajanaku has finally had his last breath. This was confirmed by a team of medical doctors late yesterday. But the mystery that surrounds his death is still incredulous, reason being that, the deceased was respected by his congregation even the popular gospel singer gave her series of hypes in all her albums et all.
What is so amazing is the role the occult people popular called Ogboni Fraternity played in his death. A very reliable source whispered to us that, two days ago, 27 Ogboni people visited his place and said to have asked every occupant to evacuate. Having spent some time with his corpse, they left, an informed family source revealed.
Not only that, it was also revealed that Oro, the deity that comes out and is forbidden to be seen by women, since his travails, has been shouting his name and all sort of.
The man, according to his church, was confirmed finally dead last night and his remains, the church said, has been deposited in the morgue but the Ogboni people, a source hinted us, has warned the church not to go ahead with his funeral without consulting them first; what this simply implies is that, the late pastor might have fraternized with this sect to aide his pastoral ministries. But can a man help God?
Below is official statement issued by the church to announce his demise:
‘The death has been announced of Prophet Elijah Iretiola Ajanaku whose death was confirmed by a team of doctors on Thursday night after several vigil of prayers since Saturday evening when his health deteriorated. Prophet Ajanaku who hailed from the Owo Ope family in Gbongan is survived by his wife, Joy and two children Stella and Apotieri. His remains has been deposited at the Military Mortuary, Yaba, Lagos.

BREAKING: Pastor Ajanaku Refuses To Die: Resurrects, Relapses Into Coma

Like a proverbial cat with nine lives, controversial pastor and estranged spiritual father of popular gospel singer, Tope Alabi, Prophet Iretiola Ajanaku is said to have regained life after being certified dead.
Hospital sources revealed that while effort were being made to prepare him for morgue, the man, who has refused to die, awoke and shouted ‘Thank You Jesus!’ and relapsed into a spiritual slumber.
Meanwhile, his wife, we gathered, has been telling sympathisers that “I knew daddy would come back to life again.” Right now, we cannot categorically tell you if the man will awake again or not.

Another report has it that, while preparations were in top gear to get his body deposited at a nearby morgue, a medical doctor was said to have been contacted to certify him dead and get a death certificate but they were shocked when the doctor declared that the man still has live in his body. For now his inner members are insisting that the prophet should be left till Friday, believing that he would have come back fully to life. So the waiting continues.
Prophet Ajanaku who is famous with popular gospel singer Tope Alabi’s fame was recently in the public eye when he opened up that the singer had demanded s*x from him.

source: 247NIGERIANEWSUPDATES

R-E-V-E-A-L-E-D: Untold love story of Bianca and Fani-Kayode

Bianca and Femi-Fani kayode

Unknown to many people, the former Minister of Aviation, Chief Femi Fani-kayode and former beauty queen, Mrs Bianca Onoh were heading for the altar in the late 80’s, but the wheels of their love life was clogged by a sudden event that eventually created a gulf between the two lovebirds.
was gathered that Bianca Odinaka Olivia Onoh, who is the sixth child of Late Chief Christian Chukwuma Onoh, the second republic governor of the of the old Anambra state, had met Femi Fani-kayode while she was studying for her A- levels in Cambridge Tutorial College.
The former aviation minister was also attending the University of Cambridge for his Master’s Degree programme in law.
Informed sources revealed that the statuesque beauty was already a queen before he met the hunky politico. The lively, charming and boisterous Bianca had won the MISS MARTINI, a beauty pageant organized by the beverage company known as Martini Rossi, while schooling at Yorkshire in England.
The relationship between the stunner and the six-footer lover boy was described as a ‘red-hot romance’ by Nigerian students then in the U.K social circuit. Then, Femi, whose father was the second Queen’s Counsel{Senior Advocate of Nigeria} that Nigeria produced, was finishing his Master’s programme and the gorgeous Bianca was settling down for her combined honours degree in Politics, Economics and Law at the University of Buckingham.
And as fate continued to smile on them, the lovebirds found each other in Nigeria. While Femi had finished the youth service programme, Bianca had also transferred to the University of Nigeria, Nzukka, where her father had compelled her to study law.
Late Chief C.C Onoh, a lawyer and expert in land matters had genuinely and strongly guided his children into reading law. And, they grew to become visible figures in Rockonoh Law Chambers.
The duo continued their love affairs in the country. While the current Nigeria’s ambassador to Spain was sweating it out in the university, the lover boy was getting set to join his father’s law chamber.
Our investigations revealed that around this time, another very pretty lady, Miss Saratu Attah had equally found a place in Femi’s heart. And, in no time, she was found to be carrying Femi Fani-kayode’s first child.
The pregnancy of Saratu Attah, whose father, Alhaji Adamu Attah, was the second republic governor of Kwara State, we gathered, set the relationship between Femi and Bianca on the edge of ruins.
Sometime in 1997 at the wedding anniversary of Ide Ahaba, Chief Sonny Odogwu in Asaba, Delta State, Bianca, who was already married and equally expecting her first child then, had told a frontline celebrity journal, when she was asked about his botched marriage plans with Femi Fani-kayode that ‘it [the marriage] was not meant to be… I met FFK in London and we both dreamt of having a beautiful home, but things didn’t work our way. I know that he’s married now,’ the elegant former beauty queen had said.
The marriage plans collapsed because Femi had impregnated Saratu, who later gave birth to Folake, the first child of Femi Fani-kayode, who now holds a Master’s degree in law. Bianca went on with her law programme and later joined her father, who was then reeling in agony, in his chambers.
Chief C.C Onoh, who had lost his first daughter in the Emene-Enugu air crash, shortly before he became the governor of the old Anambra in October 1983, was then hit by another tragedy. His son, Christian Chukwuma Jr had allegedly shot himself after a fierce family feud.
In 1988, the former Senior Special Assistant to President Goodluck Jonathan on Diaspora Affairs, participated in another beauty pageant, Most Beautiful Girl In Nigeria [MBGN] and won. The drop-dead stunner thereafter went on to clinch the Miss Africa title in Banjul, Gambia in 1989.
And, in the same year, the sexy ambassador was crowned Miss Intercontinental, making her one of the two most successful beauty queens Nigeria has produced.
In 1989, the late Ikemba of Nnewi, Chief Chukwuemeka Odumegwu Ojukwu had gone to visit his long standing friend, Late Chief Onoh at his Ugwo country home and what confronted him was an angel he desired to live with.
Hence, his visit became regular. The late former old Anambra governor, oblivious of his friend’s mission was always quick to open his doors.
It was impeccably gathered that before long, the charismatic and enigmatic former warlord had swept Bianca off her feet. So, a new love chapter was opened for the beauty queen.
About this time, Femi Fani-kayode had equally cemented a political relationship with the former Biafra leader, Chief Odumegwu Ojukwu.
Ojukwu hosted Femi to a launch in his Villaska lodge, Ikoyi, Lagos residence, where he agreed to be the patron of the September Club, a hi-tech social-political organization established by some prominent Nigerians. And unknown to Femi, his priceless beau is now the main date of Ikemba.
When, Chief C.C Onoh got wind of the affair between his daughter and his friend, which was fully supported by his wife Caroline, all hell was let loose. The late governor severed relationship with his friend and insisted that his daughter would never marry the highly intelligent Oxford trained Biafra warlord.
But before the legal luminary could comprehend what has gone amiss, his lovely daughter, Bianca had moved into the comfort arms of Chief Ojukwu. And, the Villaska lodge Lagos home of Ojukwu became her place of abode.
And, for four years, Late Chief Odumegwu Ojukwu and Bianca Odinaka Onoh lived together as live-in-lovers.
And, despite the 35 year age difference between them and resistance of Chief Onoh, the loving duo took a walk down the aisle on November 12, 1994. The sixth child of C.C Onoh, Bianca and the Ikemba of Nnewi were pronounced husband and wife at Our Lady Queen of Nigerian Church in Abuja.
Although, Chief Onoh barred his family members from attending, the ceremony was not devoid of pomp and pageantry, as scores of A-list celebrities came to witness the holy solemnization.
Informed sources revealed that ‘some of us are not surprised when FFK wrote a tribute to Chief Chukwuemeka Ojukwu when he died. He surely had a relationship with both Ikemba and his wife. And, I’m very sure that Bianca is one of the very few people he can’t resist. He dare not say no to her’ the source concluded.
Sometime in March last year, Chief Fani-kayode had written a tribute to Chief Ojukwu titled ‘ I wish I were born Igbo’ in which he celebrated the life and times of the late statesman.

ORIJO REPORTERS

source: osun defender

CNN anchor Isha Sesay tied the knot with Leif Coorlim

Leif Coorlim and Isha Sesay
| credits: Google

CNN anchor Isha Sesay tied the knot with Leif Coorlim, executive editor of The CNN Freedom Project, in a gorgeous wedding in the Buckhead neighborhood of Atlanta Saturday. The couple, who described their wedding as “fun, relaxed, romantic, elegant and unconventional,” met in 2008 after working on a CNN series together in Atlanta.

(MUST READ) I Was Dethroned Because I Refused To Have Sex With The Director! All The Details As Miss United Nations Nigeria 2013 Speaks

Miss Makbere granted an exclusive interview with mienpamo where she said it all. 
Why were you dethroned?
It all started when I got the Franchise for participation at the Miss United Nations Pageant on the 17th to 18th of April 2013.
Because I was getting late for everything, they immediately forwarded my invitation letter and other documents to facilitate my VISA application. In addition, they assigned to me an African Director whose job was to make sure I secure a Tourist Visa to Mexico were the finals would take place. I had all his details sent to me and I contacted him and we started working.

First he sent me Embassy requirements which I met but one thing never went well with me. And that was the Exaggeration of the visa fee from 30pounds to 700USD for each person and for 3 people, that would be #280,000 in Nigerian Currency, and I was to travel with my chaperone and personal director.
I paid him the sum of #70,000 for a start before he went ahead with the procession of visa.
Some days after we were invited for Biometrics and on getting there we also made another payment of 30,000. We got the Visa and promised to pay up when we return to Yenagoa.
When we got home, Mr Richard who was my personal director suggested I should do a Coronation Party for Recognition and attention and it came to pass with guests as Mr Zelly Mighty the African Director, Mr Jahn Basil the National Director, Sharon Mmezie Miss Unity Nigeria, Lynda Onwuka’ Queen Culture, Chisom Ubadike’ Miss Agulu, Amaka’ Runway Queen and so many others on the 19th of May.
The next day, 20th, I took them on a Courtesy visit to my State Govt’ Chief of staff and were received with warm hands. They were also given an Appreciation of 100,000.
Along the line, something camp up. I had a little problem and my personal director secretly suggested that I should be replaced by one Emilia Miebi. It came to my knowledge and I had him removed as my director.
A few weeks after, Mr Zelly invited us to Concord hotels for the Official unveiling of Delegates to Miss United Nations. I attended the event with my Manager/Chaperone, Miss Jessica. We were allocated to our rooms. While we were around, they called us for a meeting to discuss with us, I never knew they had it all planned. I was with Mr Zelly and he was beginning to irritate me with all Sex talks and proposals. Telling me, he can make me win if I go to bed with him. The next minute, I heard Jessica shouting out of annoyance and raining insults on Mr Jahn Basil for having locked up the room and attempted rape with force. We would have recorded the discussion but never knew the utilities of the phone we were using at that time. Though we had chats via sms on our phones. We also felt we would report to the UN pageant authorities by the time we arrive in Mexico.
We returned to our homes and went about flight bookings. But then, we got a message again from them saying they have been able to talk to some airlines in our favour and that they have reached a subsidised agreement of #420,000 instead of #456,050 flight ticket fee since we were travelling in numbers.
I and Jessica paid that amount to this account number… “Mr Zelly Chidi Mighty, 0211…..” and also prepared to leave from Lagos to Mexico on the 30th of June as the flight itinerary was booked. The event was to kick off on the 1st and end on the 7th of July 2013.
On getting to Lagos, we were informed that the pageant was postponed to October and the Venue shifted to Miami. When we reached were the other girls were staying, we asked them if the pageant truly was authentic due to the impromptu in changing dates, and if they knew much about these Directors but we got no for an answer.
I stand to say, Mr Zelly hides his identity and the other girls are aware but wouldn’t want to tell us. Often a time, he would always tell me that Miss Sharon and Lynda are his girls and no doubt I was always seeing them hug sexually and I also noticed they always inhabit a single room anytime they lodge. I believe the girls have compromised their dignity for a position because he had also promised me such a place in the Miss United Nations if I agree to go to bed with him.
I was yet to understand what he earlier meant by telling me Sharon and Lynda are his girls until I saw for my self how he Pimped them for men and how they always say yes to his commands whether right or wrong.
Anyway, since the pageant was no longer holding, we pleaded for our Tickets to be put on refund. At first they were reluctant, trying to convince us to keep it till the Miami trip because the other girls must have agreed. We stood our grounds and made them put our tickets on refund. They also told us that the refund process would take 5working days to be done and we agreed.
Later we realised they wanted to travel to Togo, to while away time and leave us behind, so we also thought of the fact that we don’t know these men to their offices and houses and if they eventually run away with our money, what would we tell those who are already in doubt about the whole pageant?
We decided to follow them to Togo after agreeing that everybody would pay 50,000 for all logistics.
We also did, just to follow up our ticket money. While we were there, we would remind them everyday if they had checked for updates about our Ticket. They brought back those Harassment again and because we would bluntly refuse all the time, they decided to hate on us with passion.
Treated us wrongly, always puts his girls first and us second in everything. And I never knew Mr Zelly, the African Director of Miss United Nations was a PIMP until the day we were all preparing to go for a party. We got all dressed up but before we could reach the venue for the party, these two(2) girls, Miss Unity Nigeria and Queen Culture were already there and Lynda was closely Leaning on one of the guy while Sharon was sitting on one of the guys lap. They were some Nigerian guys in Togo.

The rest of the girls were forced to question them why they were at the party before every other person and after hearing their explanations, especially from Sharon who confided in me and said in #quote, “Zelly insisted we should arrive here before anyone, that there were some men that he arranged for us to spend the night with, so they could give us some money to do some of the shopping here in Togo” she also said that Zelly also felt we would have reduced their chances of hooking up with the guys since I was always beating her to her beauty and looks.(i was laughing @this point) and we never saw them till the next morning.
A lot of Similar cases like this happened severally, even at the beach, we were made to arrive later than everyone. I mean i, Jessica, Steiner and Chisom with Amaka.

A day before our departure, he sent his P.A to our room to request for another #50,000 and if we don’t pay, they will leave us in Togo. At this very point, my chaperone, Jessica let loosed her anger and was talking while walking out of the room. She went outside to meet the African Director and while talking to him, a lot of people gathered. This brought one Nigerian girl that understood “Ibo” to us and Steiner who speaks Ibo was narrating the whole story to her when she laughed and told us we’ve been fooled all this while. She also added that these men are Fraudsters, what we call in Nigeria as 4.1.9. She then promised to call on her friend, and to our surprise, those friends she called were International Policemen! They came around our hotel and had all of them arrested except for the girls.

Through the night, we thought to our selves and decided to settle everything cause it might blow out of proportion and besides, we were not in our home country. We begged for bail and the next day, we left Togo for Nigeria. Reaching Nigeria we headed straight to the Bank and had them refund us our money. Meanwhile, they had deducted our money as follows;
Actual Amount: #420,000 minus
Togo Trip: 50,000
Deduction from Airline which was supposed to be 15%, they collected 20%and that was 80,000
My Outstanding Visa fee: 90,000.
And told us that the money due to us is just 200,000 only. The same thing was done to Jessica but we all collected it that way with no complaints.

A few days ago, I received some messages from this same monster in my dreams, Mr Zelly Mighty, via emails, facebook and whatsapp that i am an ingrate and that he has tried to help me but I wouldn’t take it and rather I proved difficult to him and for that reason, he was going to deal with me. He also promised to replace me with another delegate. He never stopped there, he went further to ruin my personality to the United Nations Pageant president, Mr Leong Williams. He said in #quote from one of the chats he had with someone that I am a street and club girl and not worth being a queen. Ask me, are his girls worth being one? When all they do is sell their dignity for positions?
I also reported to the United Nations Organisation and they told me to hang on, that their board of directors were attending to that dispute and they would reply me with a letter. I felt it was my Invitation letter for Miami.

Not until the 9th of August 2013, I got a message alert only to find a heading as
“Dethronement Of Miss Nigeria United Nations”.
Though I didn’t panic cause I had already concluded that I won’t be part of such a pageant.
But it pained me cause the African Director had no idea how I got my Franchise, neither does he have the power to replace or dethrone anyone not me either. After all I had been through from him and his co-conspirators and he wouldn’t just let me be.

From what I read in the Dethronement letter, it seems, he had also advice the other girls, Sharon, Amaka, Chisom and Lynda to complain and write False stories about me which are not true and can never be true.
I don’t care the number of people who are set to taint and destroy my image & personality.
Am doing this Press release to inform the Media, TV stations, Radio Houses, Bloggers, websites and every other communication centre to know that I am a Personality to behold and would never ever Stand to be Used in such a Derogatory manner. There are back-ups to what I’ve just explained.
Pass this on…”I bluntly refused to Compromise my Dignity and that is why I was Dethroned as Miss Nigeria United Nations”.
Thank you.

Continuation of the Reply…
I am aware that this Pageant is by the acclaimed nomenclature under auspices of the United Nations, which has as one of it’s Articles, the need for every individual to have the Right to respect, for the dignity inherent in him/her human persons and to the recognition of higher Legal Status. All forms of exploitation and degradation of men(women inclusive) particularly slavery, slave trade, torture, cruel, inhuman or degrading punishment and treatment shall be prohibited.

No doubt, the African Charter and the Present Nigerian constitution have adopted the foregoing piece of Legislation.
Therefore, my dethronement based on complaint founded as the above without Fair hearing to me indicates fundamentally that you are all Co-conspirators in the said plot. And one is inevitably carrying the conclusion that those who are drafted to replace me and deprive me of my self-attained franchise for the contest are all reasonably suspected to be tainted with having Compromised their Dignity.
Accordingly, I have no Doubts based on the Foregoing, that the would-be Miss United Nations and Candidates or Contestants Submitted to the INDIGNIFYING Amorous Acts.
I will forever stand to oppose those Agents and Media of this Obnoxious Acts.
I don’t see why Bayelsans and Nigerians would want to have anything to do with you, Mr Zelly Mighty.

 Source: millsmusicent.com