“I Killed My Emotions When My Husband Left Me” – Rachel Oniga Lamentation

Veteran actress, Rachael Oniga, popular for her maternal movie roles didn’t exactly get the best out of marriage. She got separated from her late husband, and she has revealed the reason why her marriage hit the rocks.
Turns out her late husband had left her for another woman, which made her experience shock, and betrayal. She finally found solace in acting, and her kids.
“He hurt me badly.Yes. During our years of courtship and marriage, I never suspected that we would just break up like that or anything could ever come between us. Back then he told me everything. I could tell you where he was at every moment; I trusted him so much.
“It was later, much later and when I did I was like ‘did he leave me because of this thing?’ I don’t know how to put it but men don’t really appreciate what they have until they lose it.
“During our years of courtship and marriage, I never thought we could just break up like that or anything could ever come between us. Back then he told me everything. I could tell you where he was at every moment; I trusted him so much,” Rachel said.
Rachael Oniga, a computer programmer who got into Nollywood in 1993 has remained one of the few actresses that has successfully carved a niche for herself both in the English and Yoruba sector of the movie industry.
The Delta born veteran actress whose first job was on a TV series, a programme called Memorial Hospital played a challenging role in her first movie called ‘Onome” has since featured in over 100 movies. She has remained unmarried since her separation in 1993, resolving to go through the rest of her life without another man.
“I believe so much in myself, and when I got over the shock of the separation and all that, I made up my mind that I was going to make a statement without a man. I wanted to prove that a hardworking woman could make an impact and with God’s grace.”
“Believe in yourself and with hard work, you will get there. God is always faithful. I killed my emotions and I said to myself ‘Rachael, your kids must go to the best schools.’ It was just work and my children.”

Jessie J admits being bisexual was a “phase” and now wants to find herself a HUSBAND

We’re used to hearing ­celebrities come out as gay – but brave Jessie J has taken the unusual step of declaring herself straight.

The star, who had previously said she was bisexual, spoke candidly to 3am about her changing sexuality.
“For me, it was a phase,” she says. “But I’m not saying bisexuality is a phase for everybody.
“I feel that if I continue my career not speaking on it, I almost feel more of a liar than if I didn’t. I just want to be honest, and it’s really not a big deal. Who cares?”
The 26-year-old singer , who is headlining the UK Live festival this summer, told one fan on Twitter: “I fancy/date/love men and only men.”
Brilliantly, she also joked online that “vegetarians eat meat ­sometimes”. When asked about the comment yesterday, she said: “I thought that was quite funny.”
We thought so too. But it hasn’t been easy for her to speak out, having basically been labelled “gay” since coming out as bisexual back in 2011.
One downmarket newspaper even put the enlightened headline: “Jessie Gay” on its front page.
She says of her past revelations: “I did talk about it, and I was open about it, and I do support being lesbian/gay/bisexual/transgender – love who you want.
“That’s what I’m doing.
“I don’t regret anything I ever said, but I never knew back then that whatever I said became a fact that I couldn’t change. I’m just so bored of it, and that’s kind of it – I want to stop talking about it completely now and find myself a husband.
She adds: “It’s a true struggle. All the chick flicks that didn’t make sense to me, I now understand – Sex and the City is real!”
Now, she does not wish to label her sexuality , adding: “I’m not anything.
“I’m aware of who I want to be and I want to marry a man. That’s it.”
But in a strong hint that she already has a boyfriend, the Do It Like a Dude singer posted a photo on Instagram last week with the intriguing caption: “Something tells me I’m going to love him forever.”
She has also posted: “I miss you.”
In another online post, she writes: “I have changed and grown up A LOT, and that’s allowed.
“And I feel more comfortable in my own skin now than ever before.
“I refuse to feel boxed and judged because of how I felt once! A long ass time ago. People change.”
If she’s happy, we’re happy.

Keep Off Your Husband’s Phones! Dayo Amusa Warns Ladies

Her words to women,

Some of us complain of problems in marriage and some are down with one sickness or the other simply because we don’t want to overlook those irrelevant things.

Why on earth should a woman carry the husband’s phone when he is in the bathroom just because she wants to catch him in his sexcapades?

Why create time just to drive around town looking for where his car is parked? Why liaise with your female friends to get him caught when some of them are after him and ready to take him from you? Na high blood pressure you wan give yourself so. Continue after the cut.

I don’t think this is necessary because even the man preaching to you and kissing his wife on national TV could have his girlfriend sitting right in front of him. You see your husband’s friend kiss his wife as they move along the road and to you, he’s the best husband on earth;he could be the chief of all sinners and your husband a saint to him.

A guy here will always use his wife’s picture as his profile picture; you won’t even get to see his own face here. But right there on his page are three of his girlfriends. This very randy guy uses that to deceive the poor woman and showers all kinds of praises on her meanwhile, one of the girlfriends on his page is a married woman. Ladies, your pastor may shower those praises on his wife with his girlfriend sitting right on the first row.

I know every woman wants to be celebrated by her man. I know we all love it when our pictures are used as his profile picture. I know we love to be hugged and kissed by him as we walk with friends. But I also know that some men are not good at it and yet they are better than some smart thieves. Just ignore those things that lead to sickness and the end of happiness in your marriage; keep loving and praying for him. With age,he will get tired and come home even if he sleeps with two daily.

Ladies,don’t go to your man’s phone.If you are number one or ten, that’s where you are in his life.Even when he doesn’t ask for it, girls are ready to send nude pictures of fake breasts and buttocks just to have him. If he loves you, they can play all the games with you but you remain the one he truly loves and adores; others are just cheap playthings. All the photos and text messages await you once you develop the itching ears. When eventually you see them,you will either take a walk or live in perpetual sadness. You see; it’s not worth it.

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Nollywood Actress Chika Ike on her recent extravant trip, I Workhard for my money.

In her recent interview with Sun News, actress Chika Ike was asked if she thought her Abu Dhabi trip was extravagant, here’s her reply “Whose money? Is it not the money I worked hard for? Did anybody give me? I have worked hard and I deserved every bit of the luxury I enjoyed over there and I can proudly say that. I will do it over and over again because I deserve it.

She also stayed in one of the world’s most expensive palace – the Emirates Palace Hotel. You only live once, anything you can afford…enjoy!