“As for marriage, it’s every woman’s dream to get married. We can’t
lie to ourselves. I do want to get married but overtime I have had
opportunities to get married but I realize getting married is not
actually the problem. The problem is finding someone you are compatible
with because…
“I’m born Catholic, I’m raised Catholic, I don’t believe in divorce.
If I get married, I really want to stay married and staying married is
not an easy thing. It means you are completely in tune with your
partner. It means you’ve found your soul mate because you’ll have to be
able to stand a lot of disappointments that would definitely come but
then again you have to learn to forgive.
“For me, before I choose a partner I have to ask myself if this is
the kind of person I would be willing to forgive no matter what when the
time comes. If the answer is no, then that person is wrong for me. That
person is not the person you want to get married to. If you know you
can look into someone’s eyes and say yes, this is the most you can do to
me. If you actually cheat on me the first time, I can find it in my
heart to forgive you. If you can answer that question honestly and
truthfully to yourself then you’ll know if that person is your partner
or not.
“So compatibility is the word aside from the physical attributes that
have to go with it. I need to be comfortable because I’m a woman and I’m
used to a certain lifestyle.”
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