I never quite understood that “sending NUDE photos” thingy!
I few days ago, nude photos of this lovely young lady was making rounds on social media. A couple of my fans even sent me the messages, pleaded with me to post it up. I just couldn’t do that to the lady, even before hearing her side of the story!
Some of the photos were so revealing from the glimpse I saw that I blushed (NO HOMO). I deleted them off my inbox right away. However, many other blog sites did in fact published the story. I saw the publications on other blogs.
First of all, the original story was that this young lady is a ‘RUNS’ girl in her home town who sleeps around with rich men to enhance her pocket and further her career. It even said that it was one of her jealous/ vindictive friends looking to disgrace and drag her down posted the photos.
But come to find out today that the first story may or may not be true. And according to her, the person behind this is a VINDICTIVE ex-fiance who wouldn’t take ‘NO’ for an answer, and is now BLACKMAILING HER.
She is a victim of breakup gone awfully wrong!
According to her story; she met and started dating a Dr who worked with the commissioner for health in her city. At first he was nice, attentive, and caring, until it all changed. He became possessive and wanted to control her life. And being so naive, she gave in to all he did and worshiped him. He succeeded in getting her to cut off all ties from her family, friends and support system. He made her feel like she could only trust him and no one else.
They got engaged. But not long after that, she started to see him for who he really is. A LIAR AND A CHEAT. SHE FOUND OUT THAT HE IS IN FACT MARRIED TO A WOMAN LIVING IN SA. She called off the engagement.
Then he started making threats and blackmailing her via email and text. He threatened to reveal all her nude photos if she didn’t come back to him. You know the usual ” if I can’t have you, no one else can.”
And shortly after that he followed up on his threat and uploaded nude photos of her on social media. This was back in 2010 and 2011. He put the photos up on Nigerian porn sites and sent some to all her contacts on facebook and every member of her family at home and abroad, her colleagues at work, and also sent nude photos of her to her home church where she worships.
At first her boss at work was supportive, he helped her report the issue to the ex-fiance’s boss. And that seem to have worked because not long after that the photos where all taken down from the site. How ever, we all know that once something has been posted on the WWW, it’s gone forever! You can’t completely take it off, which is exactly what happened in this case.
Now fast forward to years later, the photos have resurfaced and this time, thanks to everyone now spending the better part of their lives on social media, her photo is reaching even more people, only now with a different kind of story!
She lost her current relationship, her dignity, and her job. And now she is contemplating SUICIDE(I SINCERELY HOPE SHE DOESN’T).
I hope and pray that God almighty see her through this. We all need to be mindful of what we do in the name of LOVE. There are vindictive, cold-hearted, and unforgiving people out there who’d spare no length. There are no limit to what someone might do if they feel they’ve been done wrong!
Let’s be careful, and remember this young lady in your prayer.
